How did I think about writing this short article?
One of my clients came to me and asked: The whole life I was working for my family and for others. My whole objective was giving them a comfortable life.
Now I want to do something that makes me happy.
Are you aware of what makes you happy?
Most people are not aware of what makes them happy. That’s how they fail to be happy.
They are dependant on others for their happiness.
Are you dependant on others for your happiness?
We as a human being want to be independent financially, in our thinking but when it comes to happiness and emotions we are dependant on others.
We want others to please us. We want others to make efforts for us.
We want them to buy a gift for us to make us happy. We want them to take us out, eat food with us, watch the movie with us; to make us happy.
Let’s reverse this cycle.
Let’s do all these things for others that we want for ourself. Let’s start others happy with ourself.
Start something new that makes you happy, this journey has to face lots of tests and trials.
These steps will give you the results. All steps are tried and tested and give the full proof result, only thing; you have to follow all the steps.
- Knowing: You must be aware of what makes you happy. If you are aware of what makes you happy you are actually reducing a step of explorations.
- Test and trial: You can start with what you like; for this, you have to pen down all those things that you like.
- How to pick out: You can pick something that you enjoy the whole process of it; even if takes lots of time. When you will enjoy the process, time won’t bother you.
- Outcome: Your happiness will be doubled when what you are doing gives some concrete outcome. At this stage whatever you have selected you have to assess
- Ready to start: At this stage, you are ready to start something new. Don’t stop yourself, start immediately and begin the journey of happiness.
- Involve yourself: Involve yourself completely in whatever you are doing. Lose yourself in whatever you are doing.
- Remember the purpose: Remember your purpose is happiness. You will fulfil your purpose when you enjoy the process more. Your focus should not be on just outcome.
- You will be happy when you enjoy the process and when there is a concrete outcome too.
Do what you want to do.
Live a happy life.
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